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Showing posts with label support. Show all posts

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Community

Divers: di-vers
Adjective
1.       of varying types: several

Community: com·mu·ni·ty
noun
2.     a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common.

3.     a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals.
"the sense of community that organized religion can provide"


I am often struck by the historic advances of my divers community. What I refer to as the Clan of Marie. It all started about two years ago with the life altering words: You have cancer. In the last few days I have been acutely aware how my community is never stagnate or boring. There are opinions… LOTS of opinions on the state of the government shutdown. Weddings. Vacations. Trips to see children move on in adult hood.  Babies. Death. Happiness and sorrow. Misunderstandings and encouragement. Love and Loss. Seeking and knowing.

Technology has made so many of the functions of a community on fast forward or turned up on full volume. I read a book set in 13th century Wales. It was interesting to think of how much that community of castle dwelling, horse riding, sword wielding is much like the one I see on Facebook, twitter and the food market. One thing remains constant in all world, centuries and communities, our need to connect with each other.

I have a community that my common bond is breast cancer survival. We are all in a love hate relationship with Pink, Pink Ribbons and Breast Cancer Awareness. We each have a same different story that we never want anyone to ever experience. But dam glad to know we are not alone. We have love and support that we would never want to give up but hate each new invitation to our community. This is a community no one want to be a part.  I encourage you to stay out. Walk extra mile every day, eat your vegetables and beans. Drink more water.

I have a community that my common bond is scouting, a very large and formidable group. That is focused on providing an amazing way to live for the youth of our world.  We again have the same different story of why our children are in scouts and why adults that have a warm comfortable bed are willing to leave it for the great outdoors two nights a month all year long. This is a community that many people want to be a part of, but sometimes are concerned what others may think or what it might cost, or I don’t have a the right equipment.   I encourage you to look around and see just how much fun it can be to hang out with 30 young people ages 10 to 21 all doing the same thing for different reasons but trusting and supporting one another to achieve the goal. You don’t have to have children to be involved with scouting. Everyone has knowledge and experience to share, be a Merit Badge Counselor, be a unit commissioner.    Be, Know, Do and Teach.

I have a common bond with a community that believes there is a God, a higher power, a spiritual source of the universe. There is a same different story as to how we have come to know and celebrate our beliefs.  I have always sought more understanding of how and why we do the things we do in church…regardless of the church.  Celebrate your belief and honor that of your neighbor.

I have a common bond with a community that knows that Idaho was made late on the 6th day because God wanted a special place to rest. We have come to this great state and community through many routes. our stories of arrival are very divers but we have the same love and pride that was shared with a young California girl in the form of a white cowboy hat. I pray that in days to come she will return to Idaho and see beauty and love.

I have a common bond with a community of people that are my history, family and friends of friends, past co-workers and students. They post pictures of camels, on Wednesday, and of things that make me smile, laugh and scratch my head. They, we have some amazing stories.   
  

 Look around your communities in the next few days, enjoy your communities, acknowledge your sameness and your differentness. Honor the person next to you, they are someone's community. 

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

It is about 365

     As we close the month of awareness for many causes, Gluten free, Autism, and Breast Cancer just to name some that are close to my heart. Please know that those who are affected are impacted every day, 365 not just the 31 of October. If you have not had the correct cancer screenings for your age and genetic group please make that appointment today. If you do not have insurance or your insurance does not cover the test then ask for assistance. Breast Cancer is not the only cancer that has awesome assistance programs.
    In this month I have shared in the experience of the highest emotions of  Kip’s remission and the lowest as Brenda was taken from us at the young age of 48. Her body was ravaged by cancer but her soul shines bright guiding the rest of to a better way of life.
    Much is to be said for awareness, early detection and curative treatments, they save lives. I will take this time to share a bit of insight on surviving treatment and prevention. Kip was diagnosed with Leukemia when he was healthy and doing most of the right things food and exercise. There are not many external controllable risk factors for blood cancers. During treatment Kip set new markers for positive responses and reduced side effects. He maintained his dedication to good eating and exercise often to the point of embarrassing his medical team. Today Kip is in full remission and enjoying each new day as the gift it is. Being physically, mentally and spiritually healthy made a positive impact on Kip's treatment outcomes.
     Brenda was diagnosed at a time when she was not at her best physically. Brenda’s mental and spiritual healthiness is testament that you can remain positive and a beacon of hope when things are not going the way you wanted. Uterine cancer has some controllable external risk factors, same as my breast cancer. Brenda’s treatment outcomes were not what any of us expected or wanted. 4 months for surgery to remove her cancer she is dead. I miss her deeply. Please know that her death carries a message to me and you. Get healthy. Get off the typical American food plan; get off your butts and move, get in tune with yourself. Listen to when you feel good and when you don’t take action when you don’t. Know your controllable risk factors and control them.
     Some cancers or diseases are not preventable but your state of being will make a difference on how you respond to treatment. I know now that I may have been able to prevent my cancer. If I had not smoked for 20+ years, used artificial birth control, I should have had a child before age 30 and had been able to breastfeed for more than a month, if I had maintained my ideal weight and had been exercising on a regular basis. All of the above may or may not have prevented my cancer; however I did not take right steps to prevent. I want all of you to know that now is the time to make a difference in your life and the life of others. Know your factors and make the changes.
     I have shared my cancer story so that other women will know that there is help and resources available. I will continue to share my story so that more women will not die from cancer but will get the screenings, no excuses. I will also lend my voice to prevention. I have started exercising daily and must say I wish I had made this change 35 years ago. Even as I recover from another surgery this year I know that my daily walks are making a difference in my recovery. Now is the time, no excuses.
     This is a new blog spot, so yes it looks different than the other site. Give me some time to add some good and coolness to the new spot.
As always thanks for reading and supporting me in my journey.
Clan of Marie is strong and getting healthy.